This month I’m hosting the neighborhood moms group for a holiday party, and that means I’ve gotta get this house party-ready so I thought what better time to share my holiday entertaining tips and tricks! Now at first thought that may not sound super awesome…or maybe it does? But it may conjure up thoughts of kids running around, babies crying, and talks of what preschool is the best. Ya no, this moms group is completely different. It’s our monthly excuse to go out at 7 pm, sans children, drink wine, wear makeup, and feel non-mom-ish. Sometimes I’ll even wear fancy shoes! Each month has a different theme at a different house.
Since we are still fairly new to the neighborhood, only a couple of neighbors have visited. The pressure is on…even though I know, it shouldn’t feel that way, yadda, yadda, ya…deep down it’s just the way I’m wired. I can’t help it. It’s not really keeping up with the Jones per se, but more my perfectionist personality. It’s about creating ambiance and wanting my guests to enjoy themselves, feel comfortable, and remember the time they spent at my home as enjoyable. So how will I avoid feeling frazzled for this soirée? I start by making a to-do list to get this home holiday party ready!
Order party decor 3-4 weeks prior. Here at HOH, I don’t go mainstream and stop at my local party store for supplies. No sir-y bob. I, of course, like to go off the beaten path which means I hit my favorite online party place…good old Etsy. And because shipping always eats up time, I like to order my party decor a month or so prior to the big night — that might have been a lesson learned from a prior experience. Just saying’.
Baskets, Shoe Mats, And Hangers
Winter in Chicago can be brutal. More often than not, guests will arrive in snow-covered shoes, heavy coats, hats, and mittens. Unless they like to sweat, they will most likely peel it all off when entering the house. And when you have 20-30 guests, you need to plan for storage. Have extra hangers on hand. Baskets to hold hats and mittens. And most important, rubber trays to hold snowy, slushy, salt-ridden shoes.
Food And Drink Set Up
This is a big one. Guests always seem to gather in the kitchen, but I like to encourage them to explore the house. My plan is to keep the food in the kitchen but set up the bar area in the dining room. I’ve got big plans for my infamous holiday slush with a prosecco float and teaching these ladies how to recreate a coconut cocktail concoction from a favorite local restaurant. This is where much of the holiday decor will reside. We are also lucky enough to have a wet bar in the living room, so I plan to have another small station of snacks and wine.
Rearrange The Furniture
When you host a party, guests tend to gather in small groups. I always set up groups of folding chairs and balance out the lighting.
Lighting Is Everything
Sengled Element lightbulbs have me hook, line and sinker. Ever since I was asked to test out these smart bulbs, I’ve been obsessed…as is The Boy. We have them hooked up to our Alexa, and now when I want to turn on my office lights, all I have to say is, “Alexa, turn on The Bat Cave.” When I’m out of earshot and feel like dimming the room, I just whip out the app.
I’ve stocked up on Sengled Element lightbulbs for the party. They are perfect for creating that party ambiance. I can change the color to be a cool white or warm it up, make the space dim or bright. Now my biggest problem is to think up a funny name for this space like The Bat Cave because “Alexa, turn off the front room”, is oh so boring.
Plan Out The Food
This way, 2 days prior to the big event, you can grab your groceries and not forget an ingredient. I also like to prep as much food as possible a day or two in advance. Makes the sweets and chop. Holiday slush is delicious, but it’s potent. You definitely need to partake on a full stomach. There will be lots of simple hors d’oeuvres and bowls and bowls of snacks. Speaking of serving ware, pull that out too. Mine always seems to get a bit dusty from sitting. Wash it all up ahead of time.
Time To Clean
The robot vacuum will be making her rounds and the breakables will be stashed away. You don’t need your most favorite possession smashed to pieces on the floor. Believe me, it will happen. Also, take a quick lap with the duster, and don’t forget the lamp bases and shades. Turn those lightbulbs to bright and get a good look. Guests will notice that layer of yuck.
Get Your Playlist Ready
Somehow I seem to forget this one and do the last-minute scramble dance. Thankfully because I hosted New Year’s Eve last year, I have a playlist already in the works. I just need to update it with a few new jams. It’s a mix of Yacht Rock (because who doesn’t love Hall & Oats) and newer releases like Mi Gente. We don’t have whole-house speakers in the front room or living room, so I plan to keep the music flowing throughout the house thanks to the Sengled Pulse lightbulb with its wireless speaker.
Break Out The Party Decor
Break out the florals, tablecloths, napkins, coasters, party decor. The morning of your party is setup time, I plan to make a quick run to the local grocery store to pick up some inexpensive florals. While I’m there, I’ll grab a couple of bags of ice. Upon return, it’s time to break out my new tablecloth and runner. Let’s decorate.
Set Up And Style The Bar Cart
I also like to break out the booze the morning of and always set out more glasses than I think I’ll need. I mean, how many times have you been at a friend’s house, set down your drink, and thought, hmm, this my drink or yours? Guests are always happy to serve themselves. Also, be sure to offer non-alcoholic beverages. I’ve already stocked up on plenty of sparkling flavored water and an assortment of soda.
Before the guests arrive — turn the heat down a bit, dim the lights, and start the music. Most importantly, I like to take a few minutes to relax before the party starts and enjoy all my hard work.
Are you hosting a holiday party this year? Have any tips I’ve forgotten?
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Last Updated on December 2, 2022 by Kyla Herbes